Thursday, November 29, 2007

Reinforcement

Tuesday was one of those days where everything seemed to follow a theme even though it wasn't planned. The morning started out with a talk I had with Noah about keeping his word. He had light-heartedly said that he promised to do something tomorrow that he didn't want to do today. So, I told him that he didn't need to promise anything but that when he said he would do something he had better follow through and do it. That's what it means to be trustworthy and honorable. Later we were reading in the Bible for 'Circle Time' and it happened to be in Matthew on the Sermon on the Mount and the 'Beattitudes". Verses 33-37 of chapter 5 stuck out: "...Do not swear at all...simply let your yes be yes and your no be no". So the lesson Noah had learned earlier was reinforced in the best way--thru the Word of God.

Further on we read that we are to love our enemies not just those who love us because that's very easy to do and there isn't much reward in that. But we are to be perfect as our Heavenly Father is perfect. Jesus gave us many examples of loving our enemies. I explained to Noah that basically an enemy is someone who is mean to you and that loving them doesn't mean that you have to go and give them a hug and a kiss. It does mean that you shouldn't be mean back to them. You love them by treating them the way you want to be treated. That's not an easy thing to do but that is why the reward is so great.

We have been listening to the Little House on the Praire series and in "Little Town on the Prarie", the prissy Nellie Olson rejoins the cast of characters. Laura finds her to be just as mean and nasty as she was before but now Laura has a bit of an advantage and she uses that to get back at Nellie. Well, Nellie doesn't take too kindly to that and soon enough Laura finds that she is being treated very unfairly by her teacher who has taken Nellie into her confidences and it all stems back to the one thing Laura said to Nellie in retaliation for all her meanness. What was so interesting was that Laura talked about trying to control her temper and trying to do the right thing -- knowing that she was like the cup and the dish that are clean only on the outside (Matthew 23:25) -- but she gave into her desire to get even and look where it got her. (Oh, there is just so much in those stories -- I think I am into them just as much if not more than Noah is!)

But listening to that story was like an illustration in reality of the principle Jesus was teaching in Matthew and again, the lesson was reinforced for Noah. As it was for me. I have found that reading through the Scripture with the kids is so beneficial for me because, not only am I reading it regularly, but I am having to look at it through children's eyes and try and explain it in terms that they will understand and it becomes so much more clear to me too!

A couple of weeks ago we read about Jesus starting his ministry and people were unbelieving of him because "...no prophet is accepted in His own hometown."(John 4:24) and "Nazareth, can anything good come from there?" (John 1:46). Again I explained that it would be like Noah growing up to be a prophet for God -- someone who tells people the Word of God -- and his friends remember him just as the boy who always wanted to play with Hot Wheels. They might have a hard time hearing the Word from that boy. Well, Noah's response was, "It sure is a good thing I am learning about God now". Often he prays and thanks God that he is able to learn about Him. It is just such an encouragement to me to hear him say things like that!

So anyway, to get back to Tuesday...I had Bible Study that night and the section of Scripture that we read for this week, of course, contained the Sermon on the Mount and the theme continued and I have been thinking about it all week. The Beatitudes have always seemed to me to be unattainable and just some paradigm but my Mother-in-law (who hosts the Bible study) said it so well: It is a picture of what I am becoming in Christ. It is all about our character and conforming our character to Him. It really is simple in it's essence and Matthew 7:12 says it so well, "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets."

Friday, November 23, 2007

"I'm Gonna Eat on Thanksgiving Day"

It's a song on one of the kids' cd's (Laurie Berkner) and I was singing it all day yesterday...

When I'm done my belly's so full
Down...I...lie
But before you can count to 1!2!3!
I'm up for the pumpkin pie!

And that's the way of every Thanksgiving day isn't it? I've always thought there was something terribly ironic about Thanksgiving...Hours and hours are spent preparing for this feast: baking the pies, cooking the turkey and ham, boiling and mashing the potatoes, Then you've got family that travels in from out of state sometimes and you all gather at somebody's house and they've had to clean and set up extra tables and chairs; the good dishes and silver are pulled out and decorations are set up. And then the moment arrives...everyone sits down together, someone prays and offers up all our thanks to God for all His blessings, then you pile your plates up high with all the tasty dishes that have been lovingly prepared...and 15 minutes later it's over, the dishes are being cleared and the food is put away before you dig into the yummy pies.

It seems like more time should be spent savoring these delectable dishes instead of just shoveling in more and more but they're so good you can hardly help yourself! It's just all over too quickly and before you know it the gathering is breaking up and everyone heads off to their own respective homes. As much as I look forward to this holiday, it's just a tad disappointing.

Don't get me wrong...We did have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Earlier in the week I read "The First Thanksgiving" with the kids and we talked about why we celebrate this holiday and on Wednesday, they helped me make another batch of the "Fall Inspired Sugar Cookies" to add to all the other goodies. On Thanksgiving Day we spent a nice morning together and each of us talked about what we were thankful for before heading over to Becky and Charlie's to share the day with the extended family. The kids had a grand time playing with their cousins, Ariel and Alex, as well as Allie, Luke's cousin who is great with kids...they all adore her. When everyone else left, Luke and I stayed, and watched a great movie with Becky and Charlie. It really was a nice day, I only wish that it didn't have to be over so quickly.

Well, at least Christmas is only 31 days away...

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

New Pictures

Apparently it takes my "cranky" sister bugging me before I will update my blog. So here's the latest pics of the kids:

Baking Fall inspired sugar cookies:

YUM!

And here they are just bein' silly.
(I made Noah's hat and scarf. Lily's was a gift to me from Nina, my knitting instructor)

Life has been quiet here lately. We've had no visitors and made no trips and thank goodness we have not been sick with the stomach bug like some of my blogging friends are posting about. We are planning a trip back to the 'Burgh for Christmas/New Years however (please make note all those who are reading this and live there...starting Dec 29th) and I am really looking forward to spending the holidays there with my family for the first time in I think 8 years...entirely too long!

In other news out of left field: I have discovered a strange connection between Connecticut and Western PA. Apparently we are drawn to this area for unexplained reasons. I have been having very "It's a small world" experiences recently and several have been with people from that area. Just yesterday I discovered that friends, who we met recently through Monday Homeschool Classes, grew up in New Castle. She actually knew about Geveva College...no one here has ever even heard of Geneva College! Very interesting (well, it was to me anyway).

Monday, November 05, 2007

An eye-opener

A friend of mine had the opportunity to hear Brigitte Gabriel, author of "Because They Hate; A Survivor of Islamic Terror Warns America" speak at her church. She posted about it and it is a very eye-opening post and I think you all should check it out over at House of Boy and Girl.

Saturday, November 03, 2007

"ain't Love the Sweetest Thing?"

The other day I witnessed one of the sweetest displays of sibling affection. Noah was standing in a doorway and backed up at the same time Lily was coming to join him and he knocked into her sending her head into the doorjam, which of course elicited a hurt cry from Lily. As soon as he realized what he'd done he was genuinely horrified and said, "Oh, Lily, I am so sorry! I didn't see you there!". He leaned down and gave her a hug and kissed her cheek and all unprompted by me (which is definitely not the norm). When he backed away she followed again and hugged him back and asked him to kiss her, which he did but apparently it wasn't the spot that hurt so she pointed to the correct spot and said, "No, here." (I love that kissing the boo boo still makes it better for her). He kissed the boo boo and all was well again.

Normally Noah would have looked gulitily at me and exclaimed "I didn't mean to hurt her!" and I would have have then instructed him to apologize even though he didn't mean to. I think what has changed is the fact that they have started playing together and really enjoying each other instead of just tolerating and playing near each other. It is nice to not hear constant bickering and yelling at each other ( I have no idea where they picked up the horrible habit of raising their voices to make themselves heard). This is definitely one area where I don't lament the fact that they are indeed growing up.